Wedding Quotes to Cheer, Challenge and Inspire – by JP Reynolds

My friend JP Reynolds is an expert – and if you ask me, THE expert – in all things “wedding.” JP is an ordained minister and has celebrated over 1,000 weddings, non-denominational, inter-faith and cross-cultural. His ceremonies have been on TV. His books are for sale at amazon. He has officiated at backyard weddings and celebrity weddings. I would say – he has seen it all!

The other day, he sent me a little booklet he has written for couples on their way to marriage, “The Power and Magic of Weddings.” In a way, it’s a condensed summary of his insights – and I am deeply moved and want to share it with you, by and by.

Let’s begin with his Wedding Quotes:

The real test of friendship is: can you literally do nothing with the other person? Can you enjoy together those moments of life that are utterly simple? They are the moments people look back on at the end of life and number as their most sacred experiences.

Eugene Kennedy

Ask yourself: Is your partner your closest friend? What do you enjoy doing together, and what do you enjoy doing apart? Can you literally “do nothing” together and simply enjoy being with each other?

To love someone is to hope in them always.

Anonymous

What are your hopes for your partner? Have you shared these hopes with your partner? And what are your hopes for your own self? Does your partner know what they are? And then: What are your hopes for your life together, and does your partner know that these are your hopes?

Make yourself necessary to someone.

Emerson

Are you necessary to your partner – and in what way? Is your partner necessary to your life and well-being? How? And why? Is your partner your life?

Without words, without even understanding, lovers find each other. The moment of finding is always a surprise, like meeting an old friend never before known.

Lao Tzu

Can you each tell the story of how and when you first met? In what ways do your stories differ?

I personally love the last quote very much… how true: you meet a perfect stranger and feel as if you had known that person all your life. There is this instantaneous, inexplicable closeness, so intense and immediate and irrefutable – and you know you have found love. How beautiful.

 

 

Who Else Got Married this Weekend? Mark Zuckerberg and Priscilla Chan!

The guests were invited to a surprise graduation party for Priscilla and asked to guard the secret.

Little did they know that they were the ones in for a surprise – a big one!

They could have figured – after all, the Facebook founder had designed a ruby engagement ring for his longtime girlfriend a while ago already. And then there was more to celebrate: He had just taken his company public a day before.

Yet – not an IPO party nor a graduation party for Priscilla who had just received her degree in pediatrics from UCSF. Instead: a backyard wedding at the Zuckerbergs’ home in Palo Alto as low-key as you can possibly imagine!

The bride wore Claire Pettibone’s “Sky Between the Branches” wedding gown, an ivory laser-cut floral dress adorned with matte sequins lined in silk.

The couple walked down the aisle together with their Hungarian sheepdog, Beast.

The couple exchanged vows they had written for each other.

Green Day singer Billie Joe Armstrong, one of 100 guests at the nuptials, surprised the couple with a live performance of a love song with the lyrics, “Tell me when it’s time to say I love you.”

Following the vows, a reception took place under tall redwood trees and sparkling white lights.

Guests dined on food from the couple’s favorite local restaurants, Palo Alto Sol and Fuki Sushi. There was no wedding cake; instead, for dessert they nibbled on Burdick Chocolate “mice” (tiny chocolate truffles in the shape of mice), which the couple enjoyed on their first date.

The newlyweds honeymooned in Italy.

Happy first anniversary!

 

 

Something old, something new, something borrowed, something GREEN!

When Pantone announced the color of the year 2013, I got all excited, and inspired!

“PANTONE 17-5641 Emerald: Lively. Radiant. Lush… A color of elegance and beauty  that enhances our sense of well-being, balance and harmony,” read the official introduction.

I began brainstorming immediately. How would the new “color of the year” star in a stylish wedding? With sparkling emeralds, of course – but also in so many more creative ways! I decided to plan a styled photo shoot together with my friend, photographer Majesta Patterson, and we would showcase green in all its glory, in all its different hues and styles, from pastel mint to deepest teal, from spring green to olive, from sheer luxury to earthy elegance. And so our inspiration shoot began to take shape. We found a gorgeous model (Aryan, with delicate features and raven-black hair, enhanced by Beauty by Cherise) and photographed her in a sun-dappled park,

a green orchid in her updo,  showcasing an elegant green bridal bouquet by Natasha Kolenko:

Photo: Majesta Patterson

On her sweetheart table, a graceful arrangement of Natasha’s green flowers complemented a luxurious wedding cake by Cake Coquette, decorated with green sugar gems, and served on antique white-and-green china…

… and in no time we got completely carried away with our vision in glorious green!

We caught our bride playfully noshing green candy from a mini candy bar – arranged in cut-crystal glasses on a silver tray full of sparkling glass gems.

Then she arranged a rustic-elegant green centerpiece for a simple meal on a weathered garden table, a dreamy setting for an intimate tete-a-tete or a romantic Rehearsal Dinner.

Photo: Majesta Patterson

In the afternoon, it was time for our bride to select jewelry for her Great Day: real Colombian emeralds, cut to brilliant perfection and set as a ring, pendant, and earrings:

Georgie at Gleim Jewelers pre-selected for Aryan her most luxurious pieces of jewelry to try on and to truly feel like a princess!  We all could have spent hours in this treasure trove of precious gemstones, diamonds, gold and platinum…

Aryan concluded her day of bridal preparations with a visit to Nouvelle Vogue Bridal Salon, where owners Chantal and Saida are presiding over a hand-picked collection of the most exquisite wedding dresses – a one-shoulder silk-crepe dream by Kevin Gao, in perfect simplicity; embroidered-lace gowns by Jenny Packham…

and one-of-a-kind dresses by Francesca Miranda, short and sweet for the bride or elegant and luxurious for the mothers. From boxes and boxes of wedding shoes, our bride chose the perfect green strappy sandals to go with her favorite dresses for a graceful walk down the aisle, and for dancing the night away afterwards…

It was the perfect day for a bride-to-be, with something old, something new, something borrowed – and many things green, gloriously green!

Venue Spotlight: Elizabeth F. Gamble Gardens, Palo Alto

Are you a true romantic at heart, a dreamer enchanted by secret gardens, lush greenery and colorful blooms? And you can envision your wedding as an intimate affair with only your closest friends and family in attendance, say, less than fifty guests – ensconced in privacy and surrounded by the beauty of nature, historic architecture and elegant interior decor? Then do not look any further. Elizabeth F. Gamble Gardens is where you should go.

Unless you are a local resident, chances are you’ve never heard of it – right? If so, you’re in for a true discovery! And here we go – starting with some history.

In 1901, Edwin Percy Gamble, son of the co-founder of Procter & Gamble Co., visited Palo Alto when his eldest son enrolled at Stanford University. One year later, he moved his family from Kentucky to Palo Alto. The Main House and Carriage House were built in 1902 for the Gamble family by C. A. Bates, a San Jose contractor, in the Georgian Revival style, for the sum of $6,039.

The Gamble family had four children: James, George, Elizabeth Frances, and Launcelot. The sons were graduates of Stanford University. Elizabeth attended Stanford for one year before transferring to and graduating from Wellesley College.

After college, Elizabeth spent the remainder of her life in the Gamble house. Her gardens became known throughout the community, and she shared them generously.

In 1971 Miss Gamble gave the estate to the City of Palo Alto with the stipulation that she and her brother, George, could live there throughout their lives. George died in 1972 and Elizabeth in 1981 at the age of 92. In 1985 the estate was transformed in a non-profit foundation that has restored the formal gardens to the original plans, and made the necessary structural repairs  to the existing buildings.

Now the gardens are open to the public free of charge, and Gamble House and Gardens can be rented for intimate weddings up to 50 guests.

You can, for example, have your ceremony on the lawn behind the main house and your reception in the courtyard by the romantic carriage house, followed by a wedding dinner in the main house (it has a working kitchen).

photo: Kevin Chin

photo: Kevin Chin

Isn’t that beautiful? Check out Elizabeth F. Gamble Gardens and contact admin@gamblegarden.org for more information and bookings… and live happily ever after!

 

 

 

 

 

Who Else Got Married this Weekend? HRH William Duke of Cambridge and Kate Middleton!

William Arthur Philip Louis, Duke of Cambridge – second in line of succession to the throne of the Commonwealth Realms – the United Kingdom, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Jamaica, Barbados, The Bahamas, Grenada, Papua New Guinea, the Solomon Islands, Tuvalu, Saint Lucia, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines, Belize, Antigua and Barbuda, and Saint Kitts and Nevis – married Miss Kate Middleton two years ago in what was the wedding of the decade, if not of the century. And he married her in Westminster Abbey, London. The engagement ring? Nothing else but the famous sapphire that once belonged to the groom’s mother, Princess Diana.

The wedding was attended by 1,900 guests including government, clergy, royalty and celebrities such as David Beckham, Victoria Beckham, Elton John and Guy Ritchie.

Queen Elizabeth II, Mother of the Groom, on her way to the ceremony

Maid of Honor and flower girls

Here comes the Bride!

The dress and the train…

… and the shoes!

 

Westminster Abbey was decorated by florist Shane Connolly with trees from the royal estates and with flowers including Azaleas, lilacs, rhododendron and wisteria.

The bride walked down the aisle on the arm of her father, Michael Middleton, to ”I was Glad” by Hubert Hastings Parry. Her sister and maid of honor, Pippa Middleton, wore a white cowl neck dress by Alice Temperley, and carried her train.

Kate wore a long-sleeved lace wedding dress by Sarah Burton for Alexander McQueen. The bodice, skirt and underskirt of the gown were made of French Chantilly and English lace. The full skirt was made with white satin gazar arches and pleats representing an opening flower.

Hairstylists James Pryce and Richard Ward gave Kate a side part and swept back her hair from her face pinning it discreetly at the back in a demi chignon. A tulle veil rested at the crown of her head and was held in place by the Cartier “halo” tiara, made in 1936. The delicate headpiece was lent to Kate by the Queen.

As a gift from her parents, Middleton wore diamond earrings by Robinson Pelham with acorn motifs, inspired by the new Middleton-family crest.

The bridal bouquet was shield-shaped and included myrtle, lily-of-the-valley, Sweet William and hyacinth.

William wore the uniform of the Colonel of the Irish Guards featuring a scarlet jacket, gold and crimson sash, gold sword slings and a forage cap.

Two choirs, one orchestra and two fanfare teams performed during the hour-long service including The Chapel Royal Choir and The London Chamber Orchestra.

The couple recited vows and a prayer they wrote for the occasion before William presented Kate with a wedding band made of Welsh gold created by Wartski.

At the conclusion of the sermon, the Archbishop of Canterbury Rowan William declared: “I pronounce that they be man and wife together.”

After signing the registry, “Crown Imperial” by William Walton was performed as the couple exited the church.

They rode in the 1902 State Landau car to a reception hosted by the Queen at Buckingham Palace for 650 guests.

Just Married!

The lunch menu included a selection of canapes such as cornish crab salad on a lemon blini, pressed duck terrine with fruit chutney and roulade of goat cheese with caramelized walnuts.

The couple then greeted the cheering crowds from the balcony of Buckingham Palace:

… where the couple exchanged their first official, public kiss.

Guests toasted the newlyweds with Pol Roger NV Brut Réserve Champagne while harpist Claire Jones provided an elegant musical atmosphere.

For dessert, baker Fiona Cairns created a wedding cake made from 17 individual fruit cakes forming eight tiers. A chocolate biscuit groom’s cake for Prince William was created by Mcvitie’s Cake Company.

Cake detail

William and Kate departed the luncheon in his father’s vintage Aston Martin convertible which was decorated with balloons and a license plate that read “Just Wed.”

Later that evening, Prince Charles hosted a dinner dance for the couple at Buckingham Palace.

Kate changed into a second gown by Sarah Burton for Alexander McQueen described as a white satin strapless evening gown with a circle skirt and diamante detailing around the waist. William wore a formal black tuxedo.

The couple shared their first dance to Elton John’s ballad “Your Song” performed by Ellie Goulding.

The dinner menu included a crab starter, a beef filet main dish and a trio of desserts, The desserts were custom-made by brother of the bride’s,  James Middleton’s, Cake Kit Company, including chocolate pudding, ice cream and brandy, and a blackberry-raspberry concoction.

A DJ played a mix of classic and rock songs as 350 guests danced all night long. The final song of the evening was “Sex on Fire,” by Kings of Leon.

As favors, guests received two chocolate cupcakes featuring Mario Testino’s iconic shot of the happy couple on top.

William and Kate spent their wedding night at Buckingham Palace followed by a weekend at their home in Angelsey, Wales. They honeymooned a few weeks later at Desroches Island in the Seychelles.

Happy Second Anniversary – and expecting!!

Dream Honeymoon Destinations: Bali

Bali… you have certainly heard of it, maybe seen pictures…very exotic, very beautiful, very far away – where exactly is it? Bali, a large island, located between the islands of Java to the West and Lombok to the East, is part of the nation of Indonesia. Its 4 million inhabitants are mostly followers of the Hindu faith with a lesser part of the population being Muslim. Bali and Java were the heart of “Dutch East India” – a colony for 250 years before gaining their independence as the nation of Indonesia after World War II.

Bali is Indonesia’s largest tourist destination and is renowned for its highly developed arts, including traditional and modern dance, sculpture, painting, leather, metalworking, and music. With its beaches, palm trees and warm, blue waters, it delivers on all the tourist expectations of a tropical island. It is also steeped in a sublimely spiritual culture, and even the humblest offerings of rice and petals by roadside shrines look exquisite. For most, its most powerful draw is the island’s varied landscape of beach and volcanic mountain areas combined with its extraordinary calibre of luxury accommodation. And above all, Bali is heart-wrenchingly beautiful and romantic!

So, what to do during a Bali vacation?

The waters off the coast of Bali’s famous white beaches – like Kuta and Nusa Dua – are an ideal spot for diving, while the dense jungles, teeming with monkeys and hidden stone temples, call out for exploration. Hike the rugged path to the summit of Mount Batur, and your effort will be rewarded with a stunning view. Then coax your sore muscles back into action with a massage at one of Bali’s many luxury spas.

And by all means, take an excursion to maybe the most beautiful of the Balinese temples, Tanah Lot:

The Tanah Lot temple was built in the 15th century and has been a part of Balinese mythology for centuries. The temple is one of seven sea temples around the Balinese coast. Each of the sea temples were established within eyesight of the next to form a chain along the south-western coast. At the base of the rocky island, poisonous sea snakes are believed to guard the temple from evil spirits and intruders. A giant snake purportedly protects the temple.

After that, a visit to the Monkey Forest is mandatory! Ancient temples reclaimed by the Jungle…
… are home to thousands of monkeys who are not only totally unafraid of tourists…
… and specialize in stealing from their pockets and purses (hold on to your sunglasses!!) but sometimes can get quite obnoxious!
Another not-to-miss destination is Ubud, the artistic center of Bali…
… where local craftspeople create their goods in open workshops:
Ubud is especially famous for its silver jewelry:
If you are choosing Bali for your honeymoon, you’ll want to stay in one of its top luxury hotels – it’ll be a once-in-a-lifetime experience.
Let’s start with the Chedi Club Tanah Gajah in Ubud – “Traveler’s Choice 2013!”
Or try one of the Aman hotels – Amandari in Ubud, Amankila high up on a cliff, or Amanusa, the newest one of the three, on the beach in Nusa Dua:
And if that’s still not spectacular enough – here is a luxury jeweler’s take on “hotel in Bali -” the Bulgari hotel:
It doesn’t get more exclusive than that! Indulge – and have a truly unforgettable time…
Lastly, when to go – and when NOT to go? As Bali lies near the equator, its position creates fairly consistent temperatures of around 85 degrees Fahrenheit throughout the year. The only significant shift in climate relates to precipitation levels. The rainy season lasts from October through March, blanketing the region in oppressive humidity. Torrential downpours come in intervals, hammering down in short bursts. The dry season in Bali runs from April to September. Conditions are moderately humid but not nearly as uncomfortable as the wet season.Travel experts recommend this period as the best time to visit Bali in terms of weather. So – to all those among you planning your weddings between April and September, Bali is a fantastic choice for an exquisite honeymoon!

Who Else Got Married in April? Michael Buble and Luisana Loreley Lopliato de la Torre!

Michael Bublé, award-winning  Canadian vocalist, songwriter and actor: including three Grammys, to start with… His first album reached the top ten in Canada and the UK. His 2009 album Crazy Love debuted at number one on the U.S. Billboard 200 after three days of sales, and remained there for two weeks. And so on and so on. Bublé has sold more than 30 million albums worldwide.

In November of 2008, while touring in Argentina, he met “the most beautiful girl he’d ever seen” in a parking lot in Buenos Aires, of all places… As it turned out, she was a local celebrity: the most famous actress and model in Argentina, with the beautiful name Luisana Loreley… and the rest is history!

A little more than 2 years later, on April 2, 2011,  the two got married in her native Argentina, at Villa Maria Paz, a private estate in Buenos Aires, with 300 guests in attendance.

The groom wore a suit by DSquared while his bride wore a multi-layered wedding dress by Sylvie Burstin with a tiered skirt made of layers of tulle and ribbon with silk thread embroidery.

Following the religious ceremony, a reception was held inside a spacious tent.

Lopliato changed into a silk chiffon dress by Marchesa and joined her husband on the golden dance floor under chandeliers and disco balls, for their first dance to “Everybody Loves Somebody” by Dean Martin.

Before the night was over, Bublé performed his hit song “Haven’t Met You Yet,” which he dedicated to his bride. Guests danced to songs by South American singer Ricardo Montaner.

A month later, in May, Buble’s parents threw the couple another huge party in his native Vancouver, where guests enjoyed an ultrachic reception…

… and here is the radiant couple!

What he loves about her? Her sense of compassion with humans and animals alike. And what does she love about him? His great sense of humor! Sounds like a winning combination…

Congratulations on your second anniversary!

 

The “Roaring Twenties” live at The Box SF – SF Bay Area Wedding Pro’s Party


In anticipation of the much-awaited new “Great Gatsby” movie, the San Francisco Bay Area Wedding Planners group took things in their own hands and celebrated the “Roaring Twenties” at The Box SF, a historic event space with a lot of character – it’s the former printing plant of William Randolph Hearst’s newspaper empire! With lots of period detail and a touch of gritty charm it proved to be the perfect venue for the occasion.

More than a dozen group members and some newcomers had generously contributed to the party, making it into a truly memorable event, starting with a custom-designed logo, signage and fliers by Rachel Lopez Metzger of  The Desk Set.

Our models from Stars Model Agency - Gabrielle, Kris, Jillian, Katrina and Victoria – received glamorous hair-do’s and makeup by the Bella Bridal team (Jocelyn and Brenda)

in an elegant get-ready room at the Westin St. Francis hotel, courtesy of Wedding Specialist Lauren Schardt, while our photographers – husband-and-wife team rc & tess and Martin Meyer of martinFILMS captured every moment.

Guests found the space transformed with dramatic decor: elegant lounge furniture from Abbey’s Party Rentals, courtesy of Mike Seramin; glittering and sparkling linens from Sharon Dexmier’s company, Napa Valley Linens; and over-the-top glamorous centerpieces – white calla lilies, ostrich feathers, crystals and pearls – imagine! – from Jaime and Fred of SullivanBotello Events.

Tonic Beverage Catering hosted an open bar including champagne, putting guests in a festive mood, and Robbie Schlosser and his Magnolia Jazz Band enveloped the whole gathering in beautiful sound.

Revelers enjoyed tasty finger food alongside their champagne: a variety of classic tea sandwiches from Maureen Kelly at Knight’s Catering and authentic Indian specialties from Ranjan Dey’s New Delhi Restaurant.

Dessert? Of course! A stunning cake decorated with the custom logo of the evening, another little masterpiece by Alison Okabayashi from Pretty Please.

And then guests discovered what was originally meant as favors “on the way out:” cake pops by Lauren Martin of Sweet Lauren Cakes, artfully  decorated with Art Deco patterns in the colors of the party – black, gold, and ivory; little gems that proved simply irresistible! They were so good that practically none were left at the end of the evening…

The undisputed highlight of the party was a carefully guarded surprise: acclaimed entertainer, choreographer and dance instructor Cynthia Glinka led guests in Charleston dance steps, accompanied by Magnolia Jazz Band – and with her sheer energy and contagious enthusiasm got the crowd moving to the beat! Everyone loved it, and everyone left with a big smile…

Till next time!

Wedding Flowers by Color: Something Blue!

So many brides love blue – the color of the sky and the sea, the color of hope and faith, but…there are no blue flowers, right? At least not natural blue ones. What is blue is artificial.

Is it? Not quite – you’d be surprised! Of course the selection of naturally blue flowers is very limited – but that makes them also extra special! So it might be well worth the additional effort to have something unique (which also qualifies as the famous “something blue!”)

The easiest of all blue wedding flowers is the hydrangea:  available year-round, robust, lots of volume and visual impact for the dollars you spend, and adaptable to many styles of bouquets and centerpieces.

Believe it or not – they are even beautiful for winter weddings:

Most blue flowers are in season in the first half of the year, for example bellflowers:

…anemones…

… hyacinths:

… and forget-me-nots:

… here in combination with stephanotis blossoms; they are also beautifully romantic as a hair wreath for nostalgic wedding styles:

Then there are blue iris flowers:

 

and in summer, cornflowers:

Lastly, there are the unusual ones, like aconitum:

And here is a mixed, natural all-blue bouquet, demonstrating the possibilities of this unusual color:

Well…. convinced?! Something blue!

 

 

Who Else Got Married in March? Reese Witherspoon and Jim Toth!

Reese Witherspoon is an American household name. Period. She is one of the most beloved Hollywood actresses, having starred in wildly successful movies and TV shows like Legally Blonde and Sweet Home Alabama. She proved her talent as a serious character actress in her portrayal of June Carter Cash in Walk the Line (2005), which earned her an Academy Award, Golden Globe, BAFTA and Screen Actors Guild Award for Best Actress in a Leading Role. On December 1, 2010, Witherspoon received a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.

Her marriage with actor Ryan Philippe ended in 2007. A worldwide audience then was overjoyed to learn that happiness, after all, had come back to her: Two years ago she remarried. Her groom? Talent agent Jim Toth of CAA who has worked with Robert Downey Jr. and Toby Maguire. And the acid test for the relationship? Whether her boyfriend would get along with her two children from her first marriage. He passed with flying colors, and the two got engaged in December of 2010 ….

… and were married at Witherspoon’s seven-acre ranch  in Ojai, California, on March 26, 2011.

Among the 120 guests at the early evening ceremony were Gwyneth Paltrow, Kate Hudson, Renee Zellweger, Sean Penn, Scarlett Johansson, Robert Downey Jr. and Matthew McConaughey.

Witherspoon walked down the aisle in a blush-colored strapless Monique Lhuillier wedding dress with a Chantilly lace corset bodice and tulle A-line skirt.

She wore Jimmy Choo strappy sandals…

…and carried a bouquet of cream colored English garden roses wrapped in silk ribbon.

Toth wore a gray suit by Rag and Bone.

Witherspoon’s children, Ava and Deacon, stood beside the bride and groom at the altar wearing their own Monique Lhullier and Rag and Bone attire.

The couple recited their vows while standing in a bed of lavender sprigs underneath a rose-covered archway.

They exchanged wedding bands by William Goldberg during the twenty-minute ceremony officiated by Jimmy Bartz. A bluegrass band played during the service.

 A reception followed (planned by Yifat Oren and Associates) which mixed Witherspoon’s Southern-upbringing with romance and rustic touches. A tent was decorated with chandeliers, mason jars with candles and reclaimed wood furniture; and centerpieces included wildflowers, lavender, sweet peas, cotton and rosemary. Lanterns and chandeliers were hanging from trees, mismatched antique chairs and distressed benches were set throughout the property, a wood plank dance floor, antique leather sofas, jute rugs, wagon wheels and Turkish textile pillows completed the cozy country look. And while no photos are available of that part of the festivities, here is one from a previous Yifat Oren-designed wedding reception – probably as close a likeness as we’ll get!

For  dinner, a farm-inspired meal by Lucques was served which included herb-roasted lamb and mustard grilled chicken, and for dessert, Erica O’Brien created a four-tiered white buttercream wedding cake with a lemon filling.

A separate s’mores lounge was set up around a fire pit for guests to enjoy roasting marshmallows.

The bride changed into a white silk mini dress by Lhuillier and danced the first dance with her husband to Bob Dylan’s “Make You Feel My Love.”  After the meal, guests boogied on the dance floor to DJ-spun tunes. At the end of the evening, pizza and grilled cheese sandwiches were served and friends and family left with favors of Ojai honey and scones from the local Knead Baking Company.

Witherspoon and Toth honeymooned with her children in Belize.

Happy 2nd anniversary!